what if when the banquet begins the tables are covered with just ordinary food and drink the guest of honor is toasted for his imperfections his mistakes in life celebrated the applause begins and does not stop he smiles and asks for quiet grateful filled with awe those in the room are not seeking someone to look up to but someone to sit next to he does not seek adoration but rather to be in the company of friends in the midst of this experience time is lost each moment filled with astonishing fullness glance toward the door no one is leaving there is a secret untold everyone gets to take a turn at the head of the table Jay Kaplan 6/6/02